I have a friend who is about to give me a good whipping here in a few weeks. Do I enjoy being whipped? Absolutely not. But he and I both know it is what I need. I will submit to the whipping and learn my lesson from it just as I should be doing.
I have one good friend that whips me when I need it. He likes whipping, but it's hard to find people that are OK with being whipped. I like being whipped, and it is also hard to find people you trust that are willing to whip you. It works great for both of us, we really enjoy our time together.
Well at least you are accepting the whipping. It's really about the submission. Naked, Vulnerable and making your body available to be used by someone. It's actually quite hot, I love it.